Tachycardia is so Pleasant (sarcasm)

Oh how I so enjoy the tachycardia. :P

I love shivering when I'm not cold, struggling to remember to breathe, feeling my heart rate skyrocket and punch my throat in slight stress, feeling my heart rate skyrocket from just laying down, having purple mottled legs, heart burn from a digestive tract that freezes up on me when blood isn't moving well, bloating that never ends, falling over because I'm too weak to keep standing, seeing spinning colors when I stand up, saving up all my energy and strength for only the hours I go to work and ending up collapsing at home...

Yeah, I've been suspicious of POTS for years. I didn't bring up my suspicion to my doctor, but he tested my heart rate and blood pressure long enough and careful enough to find POTS symptoms.

Right now I've been laying on my back for 2 hours, talking on the phone for some of that time (talking always winds me up because it takes energy - I don't like to sit and talk anymore, too draining), and I counted my resting heart rate a few times. 92, 96, 105. Laying down!

I think I've had symptoms for years, but in the last 6 months or so symptoms have been most obvious and exagerrated. I was complaining to my doctor about how sore and achey my heart was. It hurt a lot! I wasn't used to that kind of heart pain.

I was born with a heart murmur: pulmenory stenosis. It never went away. I still have it. Cardiologists have needed me to get echocardiograms every couple of years my whole life. Every one I've seen has always been startled and confused by how loud my heart is and the gurgling noises it apparent makes. My heart has always been in good health according to the tests, but the fact that the murmur never went away and it makes weird noises worries cardiologists. After reading up on POTS I found that it's fairly common for POTS patients to have a murmur too. I have not decided what this means yet, but it's interesting.

I'm writing this on my phone out of anxiety and chest pain. Really not feeling well. I'll consider going into more depth on the subject later. 

Current Favorite Products

I've been updating this post as I think of things to add to it, and I may continue to update it. These are my current favorite products!

Lauren Brooke Cosmetiques

The whole entire brand. I've written about natural and organic make up before, including Lauren Brooke lip colors (I never finished that post because... fatigue and sickness making me not look camera ready), Mineral Fusion, and MyChelle. MyChelle no longer makes make up. I don't understand why, because they had this awesome foundation cream stick that I loved, but the company decided to focus on skin care instead of cosmetics. Such a disappointment. I switched to Mineral Fusion pressed powder foundation. I like it a lot, but I find it's a bit dry and I broke out to their liquid foundation. I learned that Mineral Fusion is not 100% trustworthy and only some of their products are safe, but the safe products are excellent and I highly recommend. I decided to finally try Lauren Brooke's pressed powder. I'm never going back. It's the bomb! It's not drying, applies really smoothly and evenly, and has this radiance to it that Mineral Fusion didn't give me. I don't feel it on my skin. It looks so natural and feels so natural, but covers the perfect amount and warms up my skin tone nicely. It also neutralizes my undereye bags without concealer! It doesn't hide them like concealer, but it masks the purple color so it looks like I'm not wearing make up or trying to hide them.

I just purchased two new items from them (as in minutes ago, have not arrived yet.) One is their lash conditioner. They sent me a sample of it last time I ordered. I never really thought I wanted a lash conditioner until I tried it, but the sample of it convinced me. It helped tone down my itching and my lashes did act stronger - as in, not falling out at the normal rate. What I would actually like from regular use of it is to regrow lashes. I have a "bald patch" in my lashes that drives me nuts. This conditioner has horsetail in it, and from my understanding, horsetail is the only herb known to create new hair growth (as opposed to helping the hair you already have grow more.)

The other new item I just bought is their creme concealer. I have an issue with eye shadows creasing on me - all brands, doesn't seem to matter if it's powder or liquid. Reviewers said this concealer mixes really well with eye shadow and prevents the creasing. I'm going to test this out and see if it's true! As it is, I tend to wear very light amounts of eye shadow so that when it ends up creasing it's not as obvious. I want to be able to rock a normal layer of eye shadow for hours!

I'm wearing Lauren Brooke Cool 20 Pressed Powder Foundation in this photo (along with Honeybee Garden eye liner, and Mineral Fusion mascara and blush.) I took this on a day when I was feeling badly and tried to get ready for work, so I did my make up, but wasn't strong enough to actually work. I never expected to use the photo, lol, but you can see how it makes my skin look natural with a glow. My chest skin was more pale than normal. I love it!






Biokleen Laundry Powder and Oxygen Bleach Plus

This has been a miracle worker for me! I use the Premium Plus one because it doesn't have corn products in it like the Fragrance Free one does (I'm allergic to corn.) I can use the Fragrance Free liquid from them, but I prefer this powder. It has Zeolite and hydrogen peroxide in it, both of which are excellent ingredients for KILLING perfumes and other fragrances. I might have to wash 2-3 times to get rid of badly contaminated clothing, but the majority of the time one wash is enough to completely remove any trace amounts of fragrances that stick to my clothes. It's awesome!!! It also cleans really well and keeps whites very white. This is the lowest effort most effective laundry product I've ever used.

The oxygen bleach is on the same page I link to. It's like Oxyclean, only with trustworthy ingredients. I use this in toilet tanks and to soak my bath tub with. The toilets have less grime and my tub that is stained a bit brown from using Redmond's Bath Salt Plus turned white. With no scrubbing. :D


This handmade turtle from a Fair Trade store in Minneapolis
...that was on clearance for $4 and I finally found a small succulent for.





Sierra Trading Post

Their website. It's part of the TJMaxx chain of stores, but is for outdoor and recreation enthusiasts. They sell a good variety of organic clothing and eco products. It may not be GOTS certified sweatshop free organic clothing, which is my preference, but I only work 12-16 hours a week. I can't afford my standard unless it's on clearance. I have a small variety of GOTS certified sweat shop clothing in my closet, but it was all purchased on good sales. When I need some article of clothing and I can't find what I need on sale elsewhere, going simply for organic cotton from Sierra Trading Post is amazingly helpful. It's all liquidation, so their selection is constantly changing, but their prices are fantastic. I've bought both organic clothing (brands like Prana, Patagonia, United By Blue, and Adventura) and natural leather with rubber shoes from them at huge savings. I can't rely on them to have what I need, but I've scored great deals from them. And it's excellent for men too! The focus on organic clothing is on women, but they actually have a good variety for men!

The only problem? Their return policy. You'll have to pay to return, which can make returns not worth it on some items. But their prices and discounts make up for it. Just make friends who will buy items that don't fit you.

Choice Mental Focus Tea and Choice Vanilla Roobios Tea

I drink a ton of tea. I can only drink water and tea, no juices or coffee or sodas. I'm limited in which teas I can drink due to medicinal properties of some teas and herbs, but thankfully both of these work for me. I use caffeine sparingly and I plan out when to drink it. I'm sensitive to it, so I have to be careful. Both of these are caffeine free, but work great in the day time! The Mental Focus tea is awesome when I'm wanting to lift brain fog without using caffeine. It really does help! The Vanilla Roobios tea just has this silky smooth dark flavor, and I love dark green and black tea. It's my caffeine-free dark flavor replacement. Sooooooo good!



GoWise USA Blood Pressure Monitor

I have blood pressure issues. I haven't written much about it yet, but I appear to have POTS (doctor tested). POTS is a heart rate issue, but in my case it's a blood pressure issue too. I'll get into this someday when I'm ready to write about the things stressing me out again, lol. Anyway, I bought this last year to monitor myself so I could learn when I was fighting low blood pressure instead of having another issue, like hypoglycemia. It has been really insightful. This monitor uses an arm cuff, which is much more accurate than the write monitors. It's not perfect because it's a machine, which uses averages to calculate. My doctor measures my blood pressure manually and spends a lot more time measuring it to be accurate and see how it fluctuates. This machine won't show fluctuations. But for an at home tool it actually is accurate enough to be helpful. I didn't get excited about it last year because it didn't ever seem to be accurate, but it was my fault. I was measuring incorrectly. I fixed my posture and arm position, which made all the difference in the world!

It does measure heart rate too. I think a normal person could trust the heart rate reading on it, but it doesn't read long enough for someone like me. My heart rate jumps all over the place within seconds. I think it give me an average, like Fitbit does (I'll get into why Fitbit is the wrong tool for people with POTS later.) But what it does tell me is when my resting heart rate is simply too high. Mine is often in the 80's, sometimes in the 90's. That's really not good.






This Shark Vacuum

Vacuuming has always been an issue for me. I get allergy issues if I don't vacuum, but I get allergy issues if I do. It's because the vacuum we had before just kicked up dust and only collected part of it. My husband came to me and said he wanted to get me a better vacuum, but didn't want to get it for me for a holiday or birthday because he didn't want to imply that I'm just an objectified house maid. lol! So he got it for us "for Memorial Day." Ha! He was teasing, because I'm not sensitive about such things, but I enjoyed the laugh.

Anyway, this vacuum sucks! It actually sucks hard without kicking dust up into the air! It has 2 more amps (power) than the last vacuum, and it has a HEPA filter built in to prevent any dust from leaving through the exhaust. It's not only collecting a lot more from our carpet, it's allowing me to vacuum as much as I want without even needing to wear my face mask! All the other features are wonderful on it too, but the fact alone that the suction is powerful and it has a HEPA filter is enough to make me fall in love with it. If you need an allergy friendly vacuum, I highly recommend this one!



This was after a quick vacuum around the upstairs to try out the new vacuum. I had just vacuumed the week prior with the old vacuum. Clearly the old vacuum wasn't picking up very much...



Om Pure Air mask

I've been using Vog Mask, but suddenly I couldn't find their organic cotton version anywhere for sale. My old 2 from them are too worn out and they're not refreshing in the sun. It's hard to breathe through them. So I was forced to find an alternative to buy. I bought this mask, and despite it taking 4 weeks to ship to me, I actually like it better than Vog Mask. It's easier to breathe through it, it fits my face better and seals better, and it's more effective. I think they have a better carbon filter than Vog Mask uses. I'll want to write a full review on this later, so stay tuned for that.





Hemp Organic Life Etsy store

This shop is awesome. All the products are made from organic hemp and linen, and they are high quality. I bought an organic hemp sleeping bag from her to use when I need to travel and sleep in beds that aren't my safe organic latex bed. I bought it as a barrier between me and the bed so I wouldn't have skin contact, at the very least, with the flame retardants, polyester, and other synthetics. I'll review this sleeping bag after traveling with it later this summer, so stay tuned for that, but snuggling with it at home is wonderful! It breathes so well, but also traps in enough body heat to keep me comfortable. The fabric is strong. It's mildly scratchy the same way wool is, but it's softening up with washing. I actually really like that slightly rough texture, I think it feels good on my skin. Anyway, she did a fantastic job with this sleeping bag. She's from the Ukraine, so shipping almost made me cry, but it was so incredibly worth it! You can see how comfortable it is:



She also sent me a free gift of these linen socks, which are so perfect. They're very breathable, but keep me warm. They feel cozy on my skin. These are the best free gift I've received with an order!






Redmond's new Tooth Powder in Black Licorice

So... normally I'm an advocate of making your own toothpaste from scratch in order to save money and save plastic. It's really easy to make with bentonite clay and charcoal. But in this case, Redmond made theirs better than the DIY version. How, you ask? By making it very powdery. It's so much finer than any toothpowder I've made from scratch, and therefore it feels so much softer on the teeth. It brushes better and is much easier to rinse out of my mouth. But the best part? The black licorice flavor. It's awesome. It's so good. I accidently bought the peppermint version and I don't care for the flavor of it.

Also, for those of you who really don't want to do DIY, this is a great option, even though it's in plastic, because the tooth powder lasts about 3x longer than their Earthpaste in the tubes.



Avocado Oil Spray

I'm not sure I have to justify why this is a favorite thing of mine. It's a super healthy fat in spray form without aerosol. I just spray it on salads and it's perfectly evenly distributed on the leafs. I spray it on chicken before it goes on the grill and it means I don't have to massage the chicken with oily hands to get a nice thin coating of oil on it.



Badger Face Oil Set:

Organic oils in a glass pump bottle - they're perfect! I don't react to any of the sets except the Argan oil one, which has orange essential oil in it. I don't do well with citrus oils. They're so gentle, take off make up way better than just coconut oil, and moisturize very well. I wear the face oil under my make up and it doesn't leave me greasy whatsoever. I can't say enough good about this set! My skin looks much more supple with regular use.



Vitamin C and Glutathione IVs (and my Mom.)

I had two of these on my last trip to see my doctor. They made me really nauseous and gave me some nasty headaches. I wanted to throw up, but was made very thirsty from them at the same time. I felt like a trillion micro explosions were happening in my body all at once. Why do I like them so much, then? Because they seriously help a lot after my body calms down from receiving the IV. Better energy, better mood, much less severe reactions to things, better digestion, clearer head and clearer thinking, less overall body pain... they're helpful! But the effect doesn't last long enough. I need to have them done regularly.



Dr. Bronner's Baby Mild Soap

This soap is fragrance free, doesn't dry out my skin, is organic and doesn't irritate my skin, and is very travel friendly. I accidently left my container of it in the bathroom where my Chiropractor and Acupuncturist are. As you can see that building stocks heavily scented soaps - it's hard for me to use their bathroom and I need to slip on my mask to go in there (it's a shared building and they don't choose the soap.) My container was mostly full when I left it there, and exactly a week later it was only a quarter full. People were choosing my fragrance free soap over the fake scented cancer causing soap! That gave me a lot of hope for humanity, lol.

I buy the large 32 oz container of it and keep refilling this little one. I keep this small container in my purse so that I have safe soap with me in public.






Wokamon App

I got myself the cheap Fitbit Flex 2 because AT&T was having a special on them. I wish I had researched fitness trackers before impulsively getting it. At the time I didn't think I wanted to spend more for a heart rate monitor, and I was wasn't wrong to think that since Fitbit's heart rate monitoring isn't detailed enough for people with POTS, but some monitoring would be nice. It also doesn't have a GPS, so I can't map my walks with it. I was mostly interested in the sleep tracking feature, but as it turns out, it's not accurate. I think it's sleeping when I'm laying in bed with my eyes open wondering when I'll ever finally drift off to sleep.

But it's not all a disappointment! I know I can't challenge myself to do more exercise with it in my condition, but it's actually been helpful to see how much walking I do on a normal work day vs normal non-work day. I can see how active I really am when I tell my doctor how much exercise I think I'm getting.

The best part? Wokamon and Achievemint, two apps that are weirdly motivating.

Wokamon is the modern day smart phone Tomagachi, lol! You must take care of your monsters by leveling them up with steps from your fitness tracker. When it tells me I only need 156 more steps to level up, I actually want to get up and get those steps in, even when I'm feeling lazy and tired. I am too motivated by reward systems in video games. :) But hey, it's fun and it's working! I might only average 3,000 steps a day (so I can't compete), but my monsters are leveling up!

Achievemint pays you for using a fitness tracker. You can earn up to $10 a month for all the activity you do with your fitness tracker. It's going to end up being more like $10 every 6 months at the rate I earn points, but hey, I'll take the $10 when I finally earn it!




30% Grain White Vinegar

This stuff works amazingly for killing weeds. It burns weeds, but leaves the roots. After the weed shrivels up you'll have to spray again to burn the roots. The fact of the matter is that it's non-toxic and highly effective! That said, it does burn the skin. Cover your skin when applying!

It IS made from corn, but it's non-GMO corn. The company doesn't verify if the corn was sprayed with Round Up or not, but they do claim the corn is non-GMO and Round Up is mainly used on GMOs. It's also just the acid from the corn, so it doesn't seem to cause me allergic issues (I'm allergic to corn.) I'm not consuming it, just spraying it on weeds.


These reusable organic cotton produce bags

I've been using these for years now, but they're still one of my favorite things. They are fantastic for buying fresh produce with because they weigh nothing, they're breathable, and they keep produce fresh and clean. They wash very easily.

But I discovered a new use for them! They're perfect for washing bras in and other delicates in! Instead of a nylon mesh bag designed for bras, I just stick my bra in one of these, tie the top loosely, and throw it in the washer and dryer. My bras are coming out cleaner than when I used the nylon mesh bag, and I'm guessing the cotton allows more soap through. These bags make my life so much easier!


Alaffia Bubble Bath

This bubble bath is by far the best Alaffia product. It bubbles really well, the bubbles last a long time, it's effective soap, and it's great for washing hair with! I like to mix Starwick Botanical's Kelp powder, baking soda (to neutralize chlorine), and this bubble bath together. I'll wash my hair in the bathwater and soak in it for a while. Then I'll even shave my legs in the bathwater. The bubble bath stays soapy enough to keep my legs lubricated enough to shave with. I rinse in the shower after, of course. I don't particularly care for this brand's shampoo or conditioner (I loved them at first, then it started leaving residue in my hair that wouldn't wash out), but this bubble bath couldn't be better!


Mantra Sports Pilates Ring

I had to let this off gas for a while before I could use it - it's not safe right out of the box for MCS people like myself. But after it stopped being smelly I was able to play with it. The reason I like it is because it allows me to use my muscles even when I'm stuck in bed on my back. I just put it between my legs and squeeze. I put it between my ankles and lift it with my legs. I hold it in my hands and squeeze it and pull it apart. The simple resistance it offers helps me a lot when my muscles feel restless but I'm not feeling strong enough to stand up and walk around. There are probably other great similar products, but this is the one I chose and I really like it!



My acupressure mat - I still love this thing so much!!



....And more. I'm forgetting plenty of things I want to share with you, I'm sure of it, but I've been working on this post slowly all day. I'm done. :) I've leaving out obvious things I've already reviewed, such as my new organic latex bed, which I can't say enough good about! Seriously, your bed matters. A lot.

Mental Health Part 2

I won't apologize for my last post in which I worried some of you. Thank you to those of you who reached out and expressed concern. I believe the post was important to write because I needed to express how much I was suffering. The way my illnesses affect my mental health is important to solving my illnesses, and hopefully helps others make sense of their illnesses.

Last month I flew out to see my doctor again. It was a long overdue much needed appointment. I believe the therapies I had done in the clinic stirred up some toxins in my body, which probably contributed to that bought of severe depression I just went through. It certainly made a difference in my body - I can feel less of a toxic body burden weighing me down. But I did stir up toxicity nonetheless.

I'm doing better again. Anxiety attacks have calmed down, and the brain fog has lifted enough that I no longer am stuck in depression. I don't know if it's due to my body calming down after the therapies, or perhaps it's because the sun finally came out. Suddenly, literally over night, the temps went from 60's to 90's. It's been in the 90's all week. The sun feels AMAZING. What's interesting about that is that my lab test results came back, and it said my vitamin D level is at 88. 88!!! It's taken 3 years to raise my level to where it's almost supposed to be (I should be in the 90's according to my doctor.) 3 years of 15,000iu a day!! The reason the sun helps me so much must not be the vitamin D it gives me. It must be something else. I believe I have Seasonal Affective Disorder, and winter is like a slow mild poison to my mental health. Mix that with stirring up toxins in my body and it's a disaster.

But there's also the other elephant in the room: stress! Stress is constant. Stress prevents recovery and rest. Stress makes me spend energy I don't have, wearing me out further. Stress puts my body into depression. The worse my adrenals, the worse my mental health. I lose the ability to spend energy on thinking. Memory recall, planning, dreaming/brainstorming, problem solving, learning... yep, it all shuts down. The more stressed I am, the less brain power I have. Stress is pure poison to me, and I get so frustrated and angry when people don't respect this fact. When people give me more problems, tasks to accomplish, or worries to worry about it actually makes my brain work less well and diminishes my ability to do what they tell me to do. The anger at others not understanding this problem stresses me further. I shut down. I ignore problems and tasks. It's fight or flight, but flight is the only option because there's no energy to fight. I simply cannot tolerate stress. Yes, I really do need to live in a bubble, and people don't understand this need either. Give me enough time to rest in my bubble and my body will recharge and I'll have energy to spend on working through stress again. But I'm burn out mode. I have NOTHING to give. So naturally, my husband wanting me to look for lodging that will work for me so we can go on a 10 year anniversary trip... sigh, stress.

I appreciate those of you who reached out to me and told me I can talk about my depression with you. It's very kind of you, and I need to know I have that kind of love and support in my life. This might sound backwards to you, but this is the truth: There's nothing to talk about. It's not a depression due to problems. It's a depression due to lack of energy and brain power. So talking would make it worse. It would use up energy I need to rest with. I know that some types of depression are solved with friend therapy and support from others, but mine is the type that requires me to be alone. I'm not entering further into the darkness through isolation. I'm letting myself recharge. Once a phone's battery is down to 10%, trying to use it only drains the battery faster, and the only solution is to stop using it and plug it in. I'm that phone at 10%. Well, I was. I'm probably at 25 % now. I'm no longer in "battery saving mode," but I'm on the verge of it. Let me charge more. :)

I know there's a lot to update you all on in this blog. I need to finish my mattress part 3 post, write about the new organic hemp sleeping bag I bought, talk about my new lab results, and go into a blood pressure and heart rate issue I have. I want to talk about some other product reviews too. I'll probably write about it all eventually, if I'm up to it. I can't take the pressure, so if it happens it happens. I only write in this blog when I need the therapy that comes from writing, so bear with me. :)

Mental Health

My life has been a nightmare for a couple of months. It's not due to bad things happening, not exactly (some extremely stressful situations happened that are major contributors), it's due to the severe fatigue. I haven't been calm, collected, and thoughtful while getting through the rough issues. I've been so exhausted that anxiety has controlled me. Anxiety clouded my mind while visiting my doctor, who is very expensive to go see. I'm anxious that I might have acted unlike myself while visiting his clinic. I'm anxious that my memory of our visit is blurred with anxious thoughts instead of reality. I'm anxious about being unable to trust myself due to anxiety controlling me.

All I'm thinking about is why people might be mad at me, might be trying to avoid me, might be hurt by things I didn't understand I was doing... But the truth is, I don't remember doing anything to make anyone feel this way towards me. There's nothing specific I'm stuck on. No one is treating me differently. It's just a feeling that is overwhelming me. A feeling giving me nightmares during day and night. A feeling so stressful that I can't recover. I can't rest well enough to regain strength.

Two major stressors affected me: traveling by plane to my doctor (lack of energy to travel and withstand MCS reactions in hotel rooms), and my work place getting in potential legal trouble over something we honestly sincerely believed was legal. I panicked that I wouldn't have a job to return to because my boss was going to be in jail. No charges are being pressed because we could prove our ignorance, but the panic attack still haunted me. The anxiety was strong before this panic attack, so it put me over the edge.

I learned about myself that I internalize too much these days. I believe I've learned to do this because I don't have someone to talk to when I need to. Even if my husband offers to listen (he is WAY too busy making money) I don't want to burden him more. So I hold it in and let nightmares take over my mind.

My doctor gave me a homeopathic remedy for anxiety that works. It is very helpful. It's not string enough to pull me all the way out of a panic attack, but for less disabling anxiety it helps reduce it enough that I can regain control.

I've had anxiety, depression, and mental health issues for a few years now. But this has been the most severe since almost 4 years ago when I was bedridden and felt suicidal. I'm not suicidal now, but I don't want to live this life anymore. The burden of being strong is too much. The burden of caring about people is too much. The burden of problem solving is too much. The burden of being a friend to people I truly love and cherish is too much. I'm exhausted. The fatigue is crushing me.

If this scares you away, so be it. I can only afford energy to people who care to support me right now. This is the most co-dependant thing to say, but it's only due to exhaustion, not manipulation.

This all comes in waves. If I'm occupied with something like shopping, cleaning, cooking, or taking care of something important I'm ok, but only as long as I have enough energy in those momements. If I have to be occupied with a task when I don't have the energy, the anxiety grows far worse.

I've always been a person who focuses too strongly and can't break away easily. Fatigue usually increases my focus. But now, I feel like I have ADHD. I can't enjoy anything I do. I have to switch between a mobile game, a project, reading an article, planningning dinner (for instance) every few minutes. If I try to focus I get anxious that the other thing needs to be done instead. I get jittery. I fidget. I can't enjoy things I love to do. It's driving me insane.  I've never experienced this before.

It's like constant adrenaline that won't let me rest. Just let me rest. Please. All the work I've done to repair my adrenals over the last 3 years better not be undone. Please don't break down on me again.

I want to break down and cry, but it's not working. I just break down with nightmares.

I'm living for the waves where I'm feeling stable. My heart goes out to everyone who feels like this regularly, for years. I understand better now. Only I have hope that I'll recover to a certain point, again, because I've done it before and I have the most helpful doctor ever. All the herbs and tinctures he has me taking work. I just need to recover. It might be a few more weeks, it might be a few more months... But I will eventually pick up again.

But please, don't give me any more panic attacks. I'm too strong, so it's hard to see when I've had too much to bear. I can internalize heavy stress and save dealing with it for later. I don't break down when I'm with other people. So just assume I can't bear it.

And thank you, doctor, for being so helpful that I can rely on you.

Thank you, husband, for being my pillar of strength and my hope and motivation for the future. 

Thank you, mom and dad, for taking care of me. All of my progress in healing would have been impossible without you!

Lamantations

I've not forgotten about this blog or some of my blog projects. I've just honestly had such a rough 2017 so far that any energy I've had to blog with was better spent on something more important. Even now I have more important things to do be doing, but I don't have the energy required for them and am able to sit at the computer and type.

I'm so burned out that my adrenal fatigue isn't just manifesting as exhaustion, it's giving me physical pain now. My whole torso area feels like one big knot, I have regular heartburn, my inner ears are ringing and spasming, my gut is giving me occasional sharp sudden pains, my head is cloudy to the point of headaches, and my muscles are getting so tight that it's causing numbness in my shoulders and arms. To top it off, I'm fairly sure I have another hiatal hernia, which might be the true reason for the heart burn. Food and pills aren't going down well, I'm hiccuping and burping a lot, and I'm getting spasms behind my rib cage.

What do I do about it? Stop stressing! That hasn't been possible this week - this week has been horrible. Let me explain: One co-worker was in the hospital, another is going through a serious family emergency and had to miss work to be with the family, and another got really sick for a day. I started my period this week, and as I've made clear before, I can't work on the first day of my period because it's very severe. I'm not complaining here - without my illness, I'm happy to help and do extra in these situations. But the result is that I worked 5/6 days this week when I normally only work 3-4 days a week. I had no choice but to work on the first day of my period, only for 2 hours, but the amount of stress I went through wondering if I was capable and able was awful. If I didn't work those two hours the store might have needed to close due to a lack of employees. Stress!

In addition to work stress, my pet cockatiel is going through a hard time hormonally and decided to start plucking her feathers. That made me feel like a horrible bird mom and I stressed a ton about if I should take her to the vet or if I need to change something I'm doing with her... I took it personally, like I was doing something wrong.

To get through high stress I should take extra of my Adrenal Complex from my doctor. Only... I ran out. It takes a week to get a shipment from him, and I'll be there in person in less than a week. So I've had to make due with extra solid licorice extract, Siberian ginseng, rhodiola, b12, and caffeine. It's helping, but not enough. The caffeine was making my bloody noses from seasonal allergies worse too. I have a bottle of Adrenal Cortex coming through the mail tomorrow. I know the cortex on its own does help, but it's maybe a quarter as effective as my doctor's Adrenal Complex.

Since my adrenals are so bad right now I'm having an extremely difficult time sleeping. I'm taking extra of my sleeping pills, but it's just giving me heartburn from the hernia. I'd take extra sublingual melatonin that doesn't go through the stomach, but I seem to be reacting to it all of the sudden. It's giving me a rapid heart heart and breathing troubles.

I have to gear up for work tomorrow, packing and preparations on Tuesday, and a full day of flying on Wednesday. I'm going to see my doctor, if I can survive until then. As it is now, I just hurt and really need to be beamed to my doctor by Scotty.

Yesterday after work I was feeling so fried that my inhibitions started to crumble and I started to fantasize about drinking a frappecinno while going on a huge shopping spree and buying tons of stuff to make me feel better. I might have been hypoglycemic and craving the sugar. But the shopping part? Why do I feel the impulse to spend money when I'm feeling so terrible - would new things make me feel better? I doubt it. And shopping takes energy, so it's weird to feel that impulse.

I'm so incredibly sick of hearing, "Yeah I'm tired too." Maybe you are, it's not a comparison, but what you need to understand is that my fatigue is debilitating. You can function while feeling tired. My body actually shuts down and acts against my will. There is a different between tired and chronic fatigue. If you actually have a mild level of chronic fatigue that lets you work full time then take a good hard look at what I'm going through and do everything you can to get better before you turn into me. Working full time is like a dream to me. I hardly remember what it was like to have the energy and stamina to work even 20 hours a week regularly.

Sigh. Social media is so wonderful, but it's also letting me see too much of the world. I see photos of people I really love and care about being so happy and successful, and it makes me feel sad and jealous. I'm sincerely happy for them. I'm truly glad that they're successful in their careers, are able to afford to buy a house and start a family, have an amazing relationship with someone who's full of energy, and are genuinely enjoying life. I'm not jealous in a mean way, I'm jealous in a sad way for myself. I want what they have. I want the energy to conquer life. I want the stamina to be surrounded with family that loves me. I want the vitality to explore the world. It's all a dream to me, one that's getting fuzzier as the years with this illness drag on. Don't get me wrong: I love my husband to death. But I'm dragging him down and making it hard for him to get his doctorate and advance in his career. I'm spending all our money on medical expenses so we can't save for a house. I'm not able to start a family. I'm really grateful that he's handling it so very well, but I know this isn't what he wanted out of life either.

I have a new favorite song, Breaking Down by Florence and the Machine:

Adrenal Fatigue Test Results

I wasn't planning to take a long break from blogging, especially since I have two two drafts for posts started that I need to finish. I've just had a really rough year so far.

My adrenals are so bad. I knew it, but I didn't have specifics. I really needed an official adrenal test done, so I bought a Diagnostechs 4 point cortisol and DHEA test when it was on sale for $120.

To test how my body is actually functioning on its own I had to go without supplements for 2 weeks so that nothing that affects cortisol would affect my test results. I only made it 3 days before I felt extremely sick without my supplements. I couldn't tolerate it. So I went a head and did the test on the 3rd day. Want to see my results? (Click on the picture to view full size if you're struggling to read it.)


I'm very low, very low, low, slightly high. According to Stop The Thyroid Madness, cortisol should be at the top of the range in the morning, upper part of the range at noon, middle of range in the afternoon, and at the absolute bottom at night.

The problem with this test is that I turned out to be abnormally exhausted - I actually fell asleep that night without herbs. That's normally impossible for me. I know that my cortisol is usually too high at night between what my doctor has told me and how I feel, but here it's only slightly high.

My DHEA is also very low. I thought I was getting measured in the morning and afternoon, but they only measured my afternoon value. If they measured it in the morning, and if their afternoon "normal" range didn't go so low (normal doesn't necessarily mean well or optimal in labs), the chart would show me in box 8. I'm so close to box 8 as it is.

No, I refuse to take DHEA supplements. They might make me feel good while on them, but they will ruin my body's ability to make its own DHEA. It will mess me up in the long term. It also can convert into extra estrogen, which I do not want. Not worth it!

Stop the Thyroid Madness has a great page explaining the stages of adrenal fatigue. According to this I'm probably in about stage 5, despite my DHEA being so low. I have A LOT of healing left to do, but I'm better than I was 3 years ago. I was bedridden then!

The hardest part about taking this test was trying to recover from 3 days without supplements. It took me about 3 weeks to stabilize again. I was miserable, dropping everything, fighting insomnia, not able to form energy during the day, getting rashes and stomach aches, fighting brain fog... it was not easy. Acupuncture helped the most to calm me back down.

Life has also been really stressful! One of coritsol's jobs is to eat up adrenaline so that adrenaline doesn't do damage. I don't have enough cortisol, so I create adrenaline too easily and can't control it. This is why I have very little tolerance for stress: stress causes adrenaline that I can't control, and the adrenaline physically hurts. This week I had to work every day of the week (co-worker had the flu, so I was covering) when I normally only work 3-4 days a week, my husband needed to prepare for a business trip that required some complicated planning, and I had to file taxes. I had really bad insomnia the night before last, which left me very fried. I say "fried" because I seriously felt like I had electricity flowing through me. Totally frazzled! Last night I did sleep, but woke up at 5 am with the feeling of electric currents flowing through me again. The only way for me to sleep well again is to have a few days without any stress so my body can stabilize.

Adrenal fatigue is no joke! I have to manage it very carefully every day. I have to take extra adrenal supplements during stressful times, so I must be very in-tune with my body.

When I am very adrenal, normally mornings, I feel very tired with jello-like muscles, wired and on high alert, shaky so I drop things all the time, very clumsy, low blood pressure with high heart rate, hypoglycemic if I haven't taken care of myself to avoid low blood sugar, unable to take a deep satisfying breath, paranoid and anxious, irritated and extremely focused on one thing or unable to focus on anything, angry, and unable to escape danger. This list fits me really well:





As you can see, this isn't easy. It's very difficult to manage adrenal fatigue, and it's stressful to keep up with what I need to do to manage it.

What do I do to treat? Well what I have been doing has obviously been working since I've improved in the last 3 years, but it's working very slowly. I'm also worried I'm regressing. I would like to improve my protocol, but I'm not sure what is right for me. I simply just need to see my doctor in person. What I am doing is taking adrenal cortex (which adds coritisol to the body), high dose of vitamin b5, a few herbs like cordyceps, and licorice root (I have low blood pressure so I'm able to take licorice root.) I also have to avoid stress and caffeine like they're poison. I didn't work for a year and a half, and that's when I did my best healing. Since working for the last 2 years (even at 12-15 hours a week) I've stopped making progress, and I've had to drink some caffeine to make it through shifts. I also have to address my high night cortisol by taking tons of relaxing herbs to literally overpower my adrenals (I take about 12-15 pills a night.)

A support group with nurses and "experts" told me my cortisol is so low I should go on hydrocortisone, which would mean adding actual cortisol to my body. I know this works well for many patients, but it's not without risk. It also has to be prescribed, and I don't have insurance. They said if I continue to treat with adrenal cortex I'll need to raise my dose substantially - they said I'm not taking nearly enough to make a difference. That will get expensive. I don't know if they're right or not, but I do know that I need to change something so I can make progress while working. Quitting my job is not an option (unless someone would like to pay me to stay at home, but even then I'm good friends with my co-workers and enjoy the social aspect, which is important.)

I'm stressing myself out just writing this post! It's too much to deal with.

So I know there's a few posts that I've promised to write. Please be patient with me. I'm having a rough time. I expect that once spring arrives and I can go for walks outside again that I'll start to feel better. This has been a really rough stressful winter (36" of snow within two consecutive weekends!)

And, if you get time, please read this post written by a doctor with chronic illness: https://themighty.com/2017/02/doctor-with-chronic-illness-things-to-know/

Results of New Supplements and Going Off All Supplements

I've had a rough month. Winter is never easy for me, but I chose to do some experimenting despite winter. I want to record some of what I've learned here.

1. Lithium Orotate

My doctor suggested I try this based on my gene data (23andMe.com). Lithium Carbonate has been traditionally used to treat bipolar disorder, but I've been taking Lithium Orotate. The difference is that carbonate isn't stable and a person has to take over 1,000 mg of it at a time to absorb enough to make a difference. Orotate, on the other hand, is highly absorbable and can be taken in small doses. I'm taking 5 mg a day.

For the first couple of weeks it made me feel a bit high - giddy, could laugh really easily, smiled for no reason at all, and had pleasant dreams. That effect wore off and I went back to "normal," except that I've noticed I haven't had nearly as many dark, depressing, lethargic, and apathetic thoughts. I originally started on inositol powder to help with my mood and energy. It did make a mild positive difference, but the lithium has done more.

I have also had regular large, deep, painful cystic acne since starting the lithium. I thought it was from taking the liver glandular, thinking it was detoxing me through my skin, but the problem has continued. I then learned from someone else that lithium gave them the same kind of acne. I'm now trying to decide if the better mood from lithium is worth this painful large acne.


2. Selenium

My doctor also suggested I try selenium for the same reason as trying lithium. Low selenium contributes to thyroid disorders, and my thyroid is disordered. I started and stopped the selenium twice. The first time I tried it turned me into a total zombie: very lightheaded and weak, dizzy, and unable to focus. I developed these symptoms immediately. A few weeks later I tried it again. It took 2 weeks before I developed the same symptoms. It gave me vertigo so strong that at times I couldn't walk in a straight line. So I stopped taking it. I didn't notice any other effect or benefit.

They say that the soil here in North Dakota is rich in selenium. I eat mostly locally grown organic foods, so I'm hoping this simply means that I'm getting enough regularly through my diet.

3. 4-point Saliva Cortisol Test/ Going off all supplements for 2 1/2 days.

I am very likely going to write a post on the results and preparation process when I get them. This is about the results of quitting all supplements for 2 1/2 days in order to do the test. I joined an adrenal fatigue support group on facebook based on the book Stop The Thyroid Madness. They say that it's very important to be off all supplements for 2 full weeks before doing the cortisol test, because you have to get all adaptions and other things that affect cortisol levels totally out of your body to see how your body does without support. I couldn't handle being off my supplements for 2 1/2 days, so I went ahead and did the test. I understand that some people think this will ruin the test results, but I honestly do not think it is safe for me to be off supplements any longer.

What happened?

- My blood sugar plummeted. With supplements it stays between 95-115 most of the time. Off supplements (I measured about once an hour for 2 days) I was staying between 72-98, most of the time I was in the 80's. I start to get symptomatic of hypoglycemia when I'm below 90, but below 80 I can't function. I was hypoglycemic a lot in the last 2 1/2 days. I did not change my diet of eating protein every 2 hours. (Keeping in mind that the adrenal glands do heavily affect blood sugar, and I stopped supporting my adrenals.) This morning (now that I can go back on my supplements) I did a test. My blood sugar was 84 when I got up, then after a protein shake including licorice (which affects the adrenals) it shot up to 124!!! That's a huge difference very quickly! I'm looking forward to going back on my pancreas glandular with chromium, which really helps keep my blood sugar stable.

- Heavy menstrual bleeding just 2 weeks into my cycle. My diva cup was full, and it was very dark and clotted.

- Blood pressure got wonky. I didn't see it ever dip below 95/58, which isn't much lower than I occasionally get even when on my supplements, but my pulse pressure narrowed by about 10 points on average. Pulse pressure is the distance between systolic and diastolic, and a healthy pulse pressure is about 40. My pulse pressure was often 25-30, but I had one reading of it at 55. This isn't stable for me. I'm generally around 30-40 when on supplements, even if my overall blood pressure is on the low end.

- Disturbed sleep. I couldn't take any sleeping aids for 2 nights, which was torture. Both nights it took hours of just laying there to fall asleep, even though I was exhausted from work. Once I got to sleep I found myself waking up every couple of hours. Small sounds in the house would also wake me up. I wouldn't feel rested during the day. Last night, after finishing the coritosl test, I took my sleep pills. They normally take about hour to kick in, but they made my whole body tingle and shut down within about 10 minutes. I felt like I was fighting sleep, but after shutting the light off and trying to sleep I couldn't fall asleep for probably an hour. Once I did fall asleep I stayed asleep, thankfully.

- Couldn't find joy in doing anything, even things I liked. The first day wasn't so bad, but the second day (yesterday) was awful. Everything felt like work, most things annoyed me, and nothing was enjoyable to do. I was apathetic, but worse than that, I felt emotionally muted.

- Poor memory. I found it hard to recall information, remember how and when something happened, and found it hard to retain the instructions I was reading over and over. After only 2 1/2 days without supplements! This shows how sensitive my body is.

- Poor vision and balance. A big part of this was being hypoglycemic, but even when my blood sugar was in the 90's I would have sensations of the floor moving below me, me swaying when I was not, and objects in the distance vibrating when they were not.

- Joint aches, but surprisingly no fibromyalgia. I was feeling very inflammed.

- Digestion plugged up. I gained about 5 pounds in bloat in the last 2 days, and my IBS is acting up. I did actually take my digestive enzymes to help, but they didn't help much. I was having regular bowel movements, but staying bloated and food wouldn't move through me well.

- Intense fatigue, but not constantly. I was able to work for the first 1/2 day and the second full day without supplements, but I was dragging and "flight mode" was kicking in a lot when I was encountering minor problems. At times it took willpower to lift my legs to walk. Yesterday I had trouble getting up and moving at times, but had weird spurts of jittery energy in which I was able to run up and downstairs to do laundry.


What did I learn from all this? That my supplements really are doing me good! I was able to write this post because I'm finally able to drink a cup of green tea, which tastes like heaven right now. My adrenal glands still have A LOT of healing to do, even after 3 years of trying to repair them. I don't need the test results to feel this, but I'm very curious about how my results will look.